Turn the Heat Up
By Terri Bonin
It’s valentines week y’all! Hopefully you’ve got some fun plans scheduled for you and your honey. I know I do! One thing I love to talk about is turning up the heat between the sheets. Since it’s Valentine’s Day on Friday I’m going to share some tips and tricks that I’ve used to spice things up. You can find these tips and tricks in my book Drops of Pleasure. Before I go there though I want to give a disclaimer…
…I take sex very seriously.
I deem it a priority because physical intimacy within a marriage heals soul wounds and emotionally bonds a couple. Passionate sex filled with love between a husband and wife satisfied beyond the moment and it waters the soul.
Ladies, show your husband passionate love when you touch him the way he wants to be touched. If he is the one always pursuing and you’re not actively hungry for him and willing to to explore unexplored territories, he will be left wanting.
There are more than two positions for sex, friends, and many more places to kiss. Consider that your husband is wired differently in his desires. Put his desires before yours, and you will find yourself satisfied too.
Your actions will show him love and he in turn will want to please you. It’s a beautiful circle. You take the initiative to stir the love in your marriage this valentines day. Don’t wait for him to begin first!
Ok on to the good stuff. Diffuse Ylang Ylang in the bedroom about 20 minutes before your special time together. Rub it on your neck, wrists, and ankles and let him find the smell. This oil is an aphrodisiac so bring on the fun!
V-6 is a basic enhanced vegetable oil complex massage oil. If you struggle with dryness this will be your best friend. Be sure to cover his man parts with plenty of massage oil to turn the heat up. And speaking of which, peppermint is an awesome oil to add to the mix this valentines day but make sure to dilute it well with some V-6 oil or your man may be jumping around singing great balls of fire and that might ruin the mood.
Enjoy yourselves this week and do something fun and new!
Meet Terri Bonin, the author of 31 Days to Fit, 14 Days to Ignite Your Marriage, and Live, Laugh, Love, and Laundry. Terri’s 23-year union with her favorite dentist (her husband), has been prosperous in their prolific production of 10 darling children. She also holds a degree in nutritional counseling which seems to be most frequently used to persuade her children to eat their greens. Terri’s secret pleasure is sneaking away from juggling the daily tasks, homeschooling, and dating her husband to escape to her office to write for her own enjoyment. As you can imagine she has a LOT to write about!
*Disclaimer: The information above is based on my research and personal use of Young Living Essential Oils. I am not a doctor. Statements, products, and techniques mentioned have not been evaluated by the FDA and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease.