Turn the Heat Up in Your Marriage
by Terri Bonin
It’s valentines week y’all! Hopefully you’ve got some fun plans scheduled for you and your honey. I know I do! One thing I love to talk about is turning up the heat between the sheets. Since it’s Valentine’s Day on Saturday I’m going to share some tips and tricks that I’ve used to spice things up. You can find these tips and tricks in my book Drops of Pleasure.
Before I go there though I want to give a disclaimer…
…I take sex very seriously.
I deem it a priority because physical intimacy within a marriage heals soul wounds and emotionally bonds a couple. Passionate sex filled with love between a husband and wife satisfied beyond the moment and it waters the soul.
Ladies, show your husband passionate love when you touch him the way he wants to be touched. If he is the one always pursuing and you’re not actively hungry for him and willing to to explore unexplored territories, he will be left wanting.
There are more than two positions for sex, friends, and many more places to kiss. Consider that your husband is wired differently in his desires. Put his desires before yours, and you will find yourself satisfied too.
Your actions will show him love and he in turn will want to please you. It’s a beautiful circle. You take the initiative to stir the love in your marriage this valentines day. Don’t wait for him to begin first!
Ok on to the good stuff. Diffuse Ylang Ylang in the bedroom about 20 minutes before your special time together, we also love this candy heart bundle! Rub it on your neck, wrists, and ankles and let him find the smell. This oil is an aphrodisiac so bring on the fun!
V-6 is a basic safe enhanced vegetable oil complex massage oil. If you struggle with dryness this will be your best friend. Be sure to cover his man parts with plenty of massage oil to turn the heat up. And speaking of which, peppermint is an awesome oil to add to the mix this valentines day but make sure to dilute it well with some V-6 oil or your man may be jumping around singing great balls of fire and that might ruin the mood. (Of course one of our favorites oils to add to the V-6 is Sensation Oil)
Enjoy yourselves this week and do something fun and new!
~ Terri
ps… If you’re looking for more “Dr. Mom” wisdom, then just text HEALTH to my number 281-747-8467 and I’ll walk you through my favorite tips on natural living for optimal health and wellness for the whole family!
Hi Friend… I’m married to my hubs, who also happens to be my favorite dentist! Brace yourself for this next part: We have eleven amazing kiddos, on purpose! Those kids are growing up fast and multiplying now, too! So our family is basically the size of a small city!
I’ve home-schooled our children for 25 years and have several more years to go until we graduate our youngest, who is nine. I was crunchy before it was cool, and used essential oils before it became a fad. Therefore, I fill this space with thoughts on marriage, mom hacks, wellness tips, and peeks into our crazy, messy, beautiful life. I hope you find this space happy and helpful!
