Trim & Healthy Mama Tip in a Minute
by Meggan Larson
The scale. <insert scary music here> Am I right? I’m not one that can weigh myself everyday. Not if I want to stay sane that is. I once weighed myself first thing in the morning and then again right before bed and there was a SEVEN POUND weight gain! Over 12 hours I had gained seven pounds?? The next morning I was back to what I weighed the morning before. I now weigh myself once a week. That’s it, that’s all. I used to weigh more often and I found that my hope and emotions were directly tied to the scale and that I would celebrate with or drown my sorrows in off plan choices. Down two pounds? Sweet! Let’s go for ice cream because I deserve it! Up two pounds? I’m so upset, I don’t even care anymore – let’s get pizza. I let that scale define me and reduce my value down to a mere number. If that number was less than what it was the last time I stepped on it, then I was an awesome human being who looked and felt great. If that number was higher than what it was the last time I stepped on it, then I was a disgrace and should just give up because I was never going to get to my goal.
Does any of this sound familiar? Trim Healthy Mama talks about the ebb and flow of weight loss on page…
…123 and I highly recommend that you read it, and re-read it, if the above paragraph resonated with you at all. As much as we want it to be, weight loss is not a steady progression downhill as though you’re on a pair of skis at the Olympics. It’s a start, stop, start, stop, stop, stop, rewind, start, kind of progression that resembles learning how to drive standard. Are you with me? Weight loss is not an automatic car that smoothly gets you to your destination. Weight loss is more like a teenager first learning how to drive a stick and all the quick stall outs and jerky starts that come with it. (Thank you Jesus for that analogy because it was NOT from me!)
I probably sound like a broken record but THM is for LIFE! It’s not a race and it is definitely not a sprint. The book recommends an average weight loss of 1-2lbs per week. I have dropped 60lbs in the last 13 months. That means on average I’ve lost 1.07lbs/week. If I had let myself get discouraged in the beginning I would never have made it to 60lbs gone! If I had whined and complained about how slowly it was coming off and how I just shouldn’t even bother anymore then I would still be 60lbs heavier (at least!) and I would not have the energy, confidence, or hope that I have right now. My life coach, Dani Johnson, told me that when she started in business she gave herself twenty years to succeed. “So what if it takes me twenty years to succeed? At least I’ll be better off than where I am right now!” I have applied that to so many different areas of my life and I hope you will too. I gave myself years to lose the weight because that’s how long it took me to put it on. I took the pressure off of myself by eliminating any sort of time limit and I am so grateful that I did because I’m 60lbs lighter physically and about 600lbs lighter emotionally.
If you are finding that weighing yourself is sending you on an emotional roller coaster then put that scale away! Give yourself time mama – you are worth it!
Meggan Larson is a wife, mom of three, and challenge overcomer! Diagnosed with a rare form of cancer and under going aggressive chemotherapy, when her second born child was only three months old, gave Meggan an expected twist to her life. Dealing with pregnancy weight gain and the debilitating effects of chemotherapy, Meggan’s weight soared to over 228 pounds. Feeling humiliated with no desire to socialize Meggan was desperate for a change. Shortly after loosing 20 pounds with the Trim Healthy Mama program, Meggan found out she was pregnant with baby number three, that ended in an emergency C-section and unexpected hysterectomy. Despite the challenges she faced Meggan has just celebrated her one year “trimiversary”, and her success of releasing just over 60 pounds! Meggan is confident that her success on plan is “doable” for anyone looking to gain back their health and wanting to live a trim and healthy lifestyle!
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