Seeing Past The Small Stuff
By: Erin Davis
There are days when we can’t seem to think past the smallest increments of time—five more minutes of sleep, thirty-second showers, two-minute time outs. All of those small things have a tendency to narrow our focus, but in reality the big picture is much, well, bigger!
“I do not account my life of any value nor as precious to myself, if only I may finish my course and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God” Acts 20:24.
Motherhood seems to be made up of a million small things. We hold our tiny babies. We fold their little clothes. We lose their tiny shoes in our minivans and their teensy weensy socks in our dryers. We celebrate baby steps and small victories. And there are days when we can’t seem to think past the smallest increments of time—five more minutes of sleep, thirty-second showers, two-minute time outs. All of those small things have a tendency to narrow our focus, but in reality the big picture is…
much, well, bigger!
Grab a cup of coffee, momma and force those bleary eyes to focus on Gospel. The fact that God the Father allowed Jesus the Son to die on the cross is a big message. In fact, there’s nothing bigger! The message that Jesus Christ left heaven, came to earth, and died on the cross to rescue us from our sin and to make a way for us to live with Him for eternity is huge. It’s significant. It’s complex. It’s weighty. The goods news of the Gospel is very, very big!
Does the big message of the Gospel have anything to teach us about the seemingly small tasks of mothering? Can we learn anything from the big story of Jesus and apply it to the little stories we are living out with our children?
The New Testament opens with these words, “The book of genealogy of Jesus Christ, the son of David, the son of Abraham” (Matthew 1:1).
From there, the Gospel story unfolds with a long list of birth announcements. For seventeen verses, the writer traces Jesus’ family through forty-two generations. The list includes mothers like Rahab, Ruth, and Bathsheba. Then suddenly we see her. Meet Mary, the new mom at the table.
Jesus had a spectacular birth. His birth announcements came in the form of a choir of glowing angels (Luke 2:8-21) and a moving star that lured wise men to travel from faraway lands (Matthew 2:1-12). But Mary’s role in those historic events was pretty ordinary.
Since it is the ordinary nature of motherhood that often causes us to question its significance, it is worth considering whether the ordinary or the extraordinary had a greater impact on Jesus’ story. The shepherds saw Jesus once and then went back to herding sheep. The wise men left their presents at the baby shower and then returned to their own land. But Mary . . . Mary is woven into every crevice of Jesus’ story. From His conception until His death and resurrection, Jesus’ mother is a constant player in God’s plan to redeem us through the life and death of His son.
Momma, God has His eye on you to carry out His extraordinary purposes through your seemingly ordinary life as a mom. You may sometimes feel like you are living life on a small scale, but don’t lose sight of the fact that you, like Mary, are uniquely positioned and called to be a constant player in both your child’s life and God’s Kingdom.
Your children are an unreached people group, after all. They didn’t come into the world knowing that Jesus is Lord or grasping how to live their lives for Him. You are the missionary God has sent to teach them. The task of sharing the Gospel and living out its implications in front of your children has been given to you. That doesn’t sound like small stuff to me!
What small tasks of motherhood are wearing you out today? What big vision has God given you for your family in the midst of all the small stuff?
Action Step: Measure Differently
Do you mark your children’s’ height on the wall or doorframe? As they’ve grown, God has also been using your children to stretch you to be more like Him and grown them in their love and knowledge of Him. Go back to the wall where you’ve marked your children’s heights, or start a new one and add marks to show how God has been at work in your family. Have your children accepted Him as savior? Mark it down. Has He cultivated greater Fruit of the Spirit in you? Mark it. Has he expanded your vision for family ministry, give it a hashtag.
A Mom’s Prayer: Jesus, help me to always be mindful of the Good News of your sacrifice on the cross. When I get too focused on the little things, remind me of the way you use small stuff to accomplish big purposes.
A popular speaker, author, and blogger, ERIN DAVIS has addressed women of all ages nationwide and is passionately committed to sharing God’s Truth with others. She is the author of many books including Connected, Beyond Bath Time, and the My Name Is Erin series. When she’s not writing books, you can find Erin chasing down chickens and children on her small farm in the Midwest.